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Dear Breakup Girl,

I've been dating a guy for the past six months. He divorced two years ago and does not want a serious relationship right now. I like this guy, we seem to get along together pretty well, and he has a lot of good qualities. However, I'm wondering how long I should stay in a casual relationship. I'm in my late 20's and do not intend to spend years being the "friend" of a commitment shy man. Is there a time limit on non-serious relationships?

-- Victoria

Dear Victoria,

No, but there's a word limit. If all you can say about any relationship is "like," "pretty well," and "a lot of good qualities," then why are you wasting your time?

Love,
Breakup Girl

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