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Dear Breakup Girl,

I am so in love with this guy Adam, and he said he loves me too and the last thing he would do is dump me. Well I never was in love or had so much in common with someone before. It may sound crazy but we were, like, meant to be together like "Adam" and Eve. Sometimes I don't know what to say to him when I see him; my heart throbs my stomach tightens and I forget what I am going to say.

Now he been talking about this "playhouse" he and his friend are building, and he said that we should make-out in it sometime! Cool, right, but how does he define making out? I'm not even 100 percent sure how I define it! Please help!

-- Alit

Dear Alit,

He's building a playhouse, huh? So he's handy; that's good.

How does he define "making out?" My guess is he means kissing.

Now, believe me, I get how deep you are in LIKElike. That whole thing about how you forget what you were going to say? I totally know. But let me be your square aunt for a minute and remind you that you should never, ever forget to say NO if something someone else does or says doesn't feel okay with you (hint: your stomach will tighten, but not in a good way).

So maybe bring a friend to the playhouse the first time you visit, and see how you feel after that. I just want to make sure Adam can build your trust, too. Okay? Okay! Go have fun!

Love,
Breakup Girl

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