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Dear Breakup Girl,

I was going out with a guy for 2 years. During that 2 years, we moved in together, fought like cats and dogs, broke up and got back together several times, got engaged, then finally broke up for the last time. We are still living together due to financial set backs, but he will be moving out in a few weeks. My problem is, that we still have sex. It is strange because sometimes I hate him, but then sometimes, I want his attention. We have the best sex imaginable, but we just can't seem to get along otherwise. I think the sex is confusing me, and I know that once he moves out, I'll be able to move on in a normal way...but he says he doesn't want me out of his life completely after he moves out, but I think, that his wanting to remain friends, is only his kind way of saying that he'd like to continue having sex. I'm not going to pretend that I am some wilting flower that is getting taken advantage of. I, of course, enjoy the sex just as much, but I feel I'm enjoying it because of the fact that I've become so dependant on it, as a form of affection and validation. I think I'm codependant to a certain degree, and even though I am aware of this, and aware of the fact that we cannot possibly have a relationship outside of a sexual one, I can't seem to just end it. I'm also afraid that I will never have sex this great ever again. I feel weak. Show me the way Breakup Girl, please.

-- Weak

Dear Weak,

You know the way. Out.

Love,
Breakup Girl

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