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And before I go...

A couple followups from last week:

Dear Breakup Girl,

You said to Constant Confusion [the woman in a five-year, marriage-date-free, co-owned-home relationship]: "...Instead, have a REAL conversation about this. Like, with a calendar. And a pen. If you can't even get him -- OR YOURSELF -- to that point after a couple of tries, start talking about who gets the house."

Ummmmmmmmmm, if the only problem with their relationship is that they don't want to be married, and they both agree on that decision, why exactly do they have to break up anyway? I know of many people who are quite happy with their relationships-- they just don't happen to be married."

-- Zzyzx

BG responds: Good point. BG left out the middle ground. Soooo -- hey, Constant? Do you really want to be married, like MARRIED married? If not, drop the subject and enjoy the home you've already got.

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