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Dear Breakup Girl,

I caught my husband having an affair thirteen tears ago, and I forgave him. But I have never forgotten it.

I have since started chatting with the girl he had the affair with online, and we have become very friendly. Of course, she didn't know he was married at the time, and tells me she is truly sorry. She is married now and has children. We talk a lot about our kids, and have even thought about having a girls' weekend out.

Do you think I should tell him about my friendship online with her? I know he would hate it and, to me, that would be sweet revenge!

-- Jenny

Dear Jenny,

If you have indeed forgiven your husband, then enjoy this friendship on its own terms (and only online) and keep him out of it. (Wasn't that the idea all along?)

Love,
Breakup Girl

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