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Dear Breakup Girl,

I have a girlfriend, and my friends are always bothering us to kiss. She wants to do what everyone says. Don't get me wrong, but I just don't want my friends to rule our relationship. Also, she can't kiss that good. I don't think we should be together if she doesn't care what I think.

Also, there's this other girl in my class that I like, and she likes me too. She's always flirting with me. She gives me hints saying if I didn't have a girl, she would want to get with me.

Also, I'm boring you, there's a girl I used to be passionate with. She still likes me and vice-versa. Last, but not least, I like this other girl. You can say I love her. I want to be with her, care for her, nurture her, and mostly love her.

I need to do something before I make the wrong decision(s)!!! Please help me!

-- Jason

Dear Jason,

Oh, no, kiddo, you didn't bore me at all! But I think your girlfriend would also be interested to hear that she's not the girl you'd like to "be with, care for, nurture," etc. (and that that girl wasn't even the only other one in your letter).

So Jason? It's okay to have lots of crushes, or one girlfriend, but not all at once. So if it's not going to work with Girl #1 (in order of appearance), then you've got to do the right thing and let her know that kindly/gently/clearly. Give yourself (and her feelings) a little time, and then...well, if I suggested you go for the "be with, care for, nurture" one, would I be boring you?

Love,
Breakup Girl

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