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Dear Breakup Girl,

My relationship of ten years is going down hill fast! I recently found out that my boyfriend had a fling with a coworker. We've had many toiled discussions (not knocking the communication) about what to do now. He has recently, however, confided that he has developed feelings for this girl and wants to pursue a relationship with her that he believes will only last a few months. He thinks that we should stay living together over this period, and he'll just go see her on weekends. Is this a reasonable request? Sure, it will save on the moving/breakup expenses and maybe (in the end) I'll have my man back, but does the logic compute here or is this an attempt to avoid the inevitable?

-- Deflated

Dear Deflated,

Is this a reasonable request? Is he Hugh Hefner, who keeps different girlfriends in different bedrooms of his mansion? If so, yes. Otherwise, save the inevitable expense to your soul and move the heck out.

Love,
Breakup Girl

 
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