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Dear Breakup Girl,

My girlfriend of one year recently broke up with me, then decided it was a mistake and wrote me an e-mail saying she thought she still loved me, but couldn't deal with the distance (she graduated last year and moved two hours away, hence the breakup, which was entirely one-sided). I told her I couldn't really deal with e-mails saying she thought she still loved me and asked her to take some time to figure out if she did or didn't and to get back to me.

The problem is, now I'm starting to get a little upset that it is taking her so long to decide if she still cares for me. Should I rush her, or just sit and be frustrated?

-- Brett

Dear Brett,

She's totally allowed to be confused, but she's totally not allowed to send you confusing emails. If there's something specific that you two need to work through together, then fine, you should talk; but writing, "hi, might still love u, but not sure, bye! : ) <SEND>" doesn't count. You need to <REPLY> with, "ok, let me know by [specific deadline]."

Love,
Breakup Girl

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