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Dear Breakup Girl,

What's a good way to tell my sweet, incredible boyfriend that I think he's beautiful and I adore his body, even though he's fat, and I'd like the lights on once in a while (nudge nudge, wink wink)?

-- In the Dark

Dear Dark,

You pretty much already know, but I'm so glad you asked. How about saying, "Sweet incredible boyfriend, I think you're beautiful and I adore your body. I love what we do in the dark, but I'd also love to try having the lights on once in a while.What do you think?" If he's bashful, start with lots of candles (think: that scene in the new "Romeo + Juliet," except without the death part). Alternatively, you could simply "show, not tell" (nudge nudge wink wink).

See, shy big/beautiful people out there? Saying, confidently, "Here I am!" -- as opposed to hiding -- is what's truly hottest of all.

Love,
Breakup Girl

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