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Dear Breakup Girl,

I want to end my marriage, but I don't know how to tell him. Is it fair to write him a letter or should I tell him in person?

-- Kat

Dear Kat,

Rule of thumb: unseal the deal the same way that you sealed it. Choose the medium that matches and honors the relationship. If you met online -- and have conducted your relationship entirely online -- then (and only then) can you break up online.You may use the telephone to tell your Psychic that you just want to be Friends. But I'm guessing that you two are more than...pen pals. So, yeah, you're going to have to do the deed face to face. BUT. If you don't trust yourself to remain coherent, and you have some key points to get across and set in stone, definitely go ahead and write them down. Then either start the conversation with the letter, or submit it as a "handout" during or after. Good luck. And please spell-check.

Love,
Breakup Girl

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