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Dear Breakup Girl,

I've been with this guy for over two years and I recently noticed that I am not "into" men. There is a woman I've met through church that I am very interested in ... but I just don't know what to tell my boyfriend. What do you think I should do? Please help me.

-- Me

Dear Me,

The first thing you should do is know that you are not the only person, male or female, who is in this kind of tricky bind (a lot of you have, in fact, written to Breakup Girl, so everyone pay attention). The next thing you should do is track down some of the other people who have been there and find out how they've handled it. I'd suggest checking out some of the resources at the Coalition for Positive Sexuality. Good luck.

Love,
Breakup Girl

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