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Dear Breakup Girl,

I've been dating my neighbor for two months now. We were both in pretty bad situations to have started a serious relationship. I just moved to the area, know no one, and have a stressful job. His mother recently passed away, and he is dealing with other issues as well. I became completely dependent on him and lost all sense of myself. We have acknowledged my neediness, and have attempted to work through our obstacles, because we truly do share something special. I realize that I am in love with him, but problem is we just broke up this past weekend because I flipped out on him (again). We decided to talk things over in a week. I really want him back, and have taken steps to become more dependent on myself. I know now that I don't need him to survive -- I have a lot going for me on my own. I want us to have the loving, caring relationship we started out with, and that both of us deserve. I've always been a strong, stable person, but the slew of changes I've faced over the past months have exhibited themselves in some truly loathsome behavior and childish antics. I am embarrassed and ready to start anew. Help. How do I prove this to him?

Sincerely,
Sane, Sober and Secure

Dear Sane,

Say: "I really want you back, and have taken steps to become more dependent on myself. I know now that I don't need you to survive -- I have a lot going for me on my own. I want us to have the loving, caring relationship we started out with, and that both of us deserve. I've always been a strong, stable person, but the slew of changes I've faced over the past months have exhibited themselves in some truly loathsome behavior and childish antics. I am embarrassed and ready to start anew."

Love,
Breakup Girl

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