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Dear Breakup Girl,

I have been in a relationship with someone for three months now. I'm a musician, and my obsession / occupation is a bit trying on my relationships. Needless to say, I've been dumped so many times, I've learned to be extremely realistic when it comes to who I give my heart to. Well, this girl is incredible and is everything I could ever want in a woman. My instincts coupled with some very disturbing finds (I won't get into detail, because that will only demonstrate my desperation / stupidity for staying with her as long as I have.) have finally caused me to realize that I must leave this relationship. One problem, I don't wish to get into the particuliars of why I no longer want this. I am a man of tact, and don't believe in embarrassing someone to such a degree. Not only that, I do not really feel comfortable admitting to her that I knew what was going on all along. What should I do? Also, am I nuts for staying with someone who had absolutely no regard for someone they supposedly cared so much for? I could have shared my life with her. Help!

-- Nitwit in NYC

Dear Nitwit,

I don't really get what your question is, but it sounds like you already know the answer.

Love,
Breakup Girl

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