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Dear Breakup Girl,
I like one of my good friends. The problem is, he just broke up with his
girlfriend K., who happens to also be a friend of mine. I know it's not right
for me to make a move and ask him out, especially because he's not over K., and
I don't think it's right to go out with a friend's ex (even if we're not close
friends). But I like him a lot, and I know he feels the same about me, even
though he loves K. too. How long I should wait before asking him out?
-- Jennifer
Dear Jennifer,
Give it at least a few months. Not only out of respect for K., but also
because you don't want to get jiggy with him until he has safely exited the
rebound zone. It might feel like forever, but if there really is something
between you two, it'll last. And at least you don't have to wait as long as
Charles and Camilla do.
Love,
Breakup Girl
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