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Dear Breakup Girl,

My last relationship ended before I got to college. Now, I can't meet any guy whose primary interest isn't sleeping with me on the first date. I think I'm funny, smart, attractive, vivacious; does that mean guys automatically think I'm easy?? Am I the only girl on earth who's been in a three-year relationship without losing her virginity? What do I do to meet a nice guy, not a pleasure seeking pimp!

–Been There, Haven't Done That

Dear Been There, Haven't Done That,

You are absolutely not the only one, I promise. I know that lots of people want to have lots of sex in college — especially first year — because, all of a sudden, they … can. And as annoyed as you must be, keep in mind that wanting to have sex on the first date doesn't make a guy a "pleasure-seeking pimp" any more than it makes a girl a "slut." Just hold out for the "nice" guy — he's there, I promise — who might even want to have sex right away, but wants, even more, to wait.

Love,
Breakup Girl

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