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Dear Breakup Girl,

I am 27 and have been going out with my 35-year-old boyfriend Angel for nearly four years. We had a big chat the other night/morning and I told him that I am incredibly (like having prophetic dreams about...) attracted to a friend of his, Oz, one of a couple that we spent a lot of time with until they moved to another city. Angel thought that they'd been trying to get a bit of a sex fest happening before they moved. I didn't think so at the time (too good to be true) but now I can't stop thinking about it. I definitely get the vibe from Oz that he is keen and I would definitely like to have sex with him. I'm just not so sure about the whole everyone-joining-in thing.

I don't want to ruin the friendship we have with Oz and Willow, 'cause Willow is such a nice girl and I wouldn't want to hurt her. I s'pose I'm not sure if she is keen to join in. Also, I don't know how this is going to affect my relationship with Angel. He says he is cool with me being with Oz but I don't know how it will all turn out in the end. Do you think it will get too messy? I've had previous boyfriends encourage me to explore sex with women while we were going out but then the boyfriend got all weird after and the relationship deteriorated. In a perfect world we'd all be like, cool about it. But it could turn out TV dramatic... What do you think?

-- The Buffinator

Dear Buffinator,

This is a Hellmouth that you do not want to open. Not saying three-or-moresomes can never work, just that this one's got way too many live wires, loose ends, and question marks. Invent and explore other ways to spark things up with Angel; let TV-Willow's love life get complicated.

Love,
Breakup Girl

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