MSN.com, Match.com, HappenMagazine.com: they’re in a healthy and satisfying 3-way relationship. Meaning that you can find MSN/Match.com’s “Ask Lynn” columns –penned by BG’s alter ego — over at Happen now as well.

This week Lynn advises a widower who is Laying a Lot on the Line. He is in the process of moving closer to his long distance love, but starting to feel their relationship change, perhaps because of it.

She says she loves me, but recently, every time we talk I end up calling her and she rarely calls me now. The past few nights I haven’t even received as much a “good night” text message from her.

Is this a hiccup more than a red flag? Should he call off the movers? Read the full letter and Lynn’s answer at Happen, then come back here and comment below!