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Dear Breakup Girl,

I've had an on off relationship with this guy for about year. Finally, towards the end of the school year we have a pretty stable thing going. But then comes summer, filling my schedule until I saw him less than once a month. So I decide to break it off. It made sense at the time but now I realize I really do love him. It's like not having him makes me want him more. We have no classes together but I see him in the halls and at parties. He's a big flirt so I can't tell how he feels about me. How can I let him know how I feel about him without making it obvious to the world?

-- Jacklyn

Dear Jacklyn,

Um, tell him, not the world. I know it's pretty much the same thing, this being high school and all, but still. One friend of BG's once told someone how he felt by taking out an ad in the college paper. That's what I'd call "obvious to the world." (Also, it didn't work.) Instead, fine a place where you can talk one on one (like the phone), and ask himwhat he thinks about a do-over. If he's into it, great. But if he says no, don't you dare tell the world he's a jerk.

Good luck!

Love,
Breakup Girl

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