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NEXT LETTER > Dear Breakup Girl, My live-in boyfriend (who's 30, I'm 41) of three and a half years told me he wanted to 'just be friends' this past September. I moved out. He got engaged New Year's Eve to a woman (she's 29) with whom he had a brief fling in college and has heard from or had visit him a couple times a year for the past nine years (each time they met, she was all over him like the proverbial cheap suit). They are to be married in May. I have two questions. Will this marriage work? and Why do I still care? -- Patton
Why do you care? Of course you care. Are you kidding me? Even Breakup Girl cares, and she doesn't even know these people. Dumped you in September, engaged in December?! Yeesh. All I can say is, she may have been all over him like a cheap suit, but oddly enough -- as the genuine-article fashion zombies from the 70s and 80s attest -- sometimes it's the cheap ones that last.So this thing could be a flimsy rebound, or it could be some solid perma-crease that somehow never got ironed out. Or, gulp, it could be an age thing. So I don't know if it's going to last or not, but I do know that you're not allowed to obsess about it. Write to Breakup Girl, speculate with your friends -- but I can trust you not to pull any "I must stop the wedding" Julia Roberts antics, right? Buy your bad self a pricey suit and find some gent who doesn't have his past mixed up with his future. Love, < PREVIOUS LETTER || NEXT LETTER > |
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