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Dear Breakup Girl, Eight months ago, my best friend/boss started sleeping with my husband of six months. After a minor nervous breakdown (in which I bought a convertible and dyed my hair blonde), I went back to work. My question is: Am I justified in referring to her to customers as a "badly-dressed Petri dish"? And what underhanded and nasty things do you suggest to continue in my quest to be a constant and bitter thorn in her side? -- Beth
One of the problems with the "Petri dish" metaphor is that your customers, like Breakup Girl, will not really be sure what you mean. But there are much more important issues here. Calling her mean names is -- here it comes again -- legal (in a First Amendment sense), but tacky. Breakup Girl has always discouraged "underhanded and nasty acts" as a means of revenge. Why? Because they make you look bad -- to the people in front of whom you most want to look good: (1) the evildoer(s), and (2) yourself. When you look back, you feel worse. The best way to get back at those who have done you wrong is to immediately be successful all areas of your life. You were on the right track with the car and the hair. Love, |
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